Sleep training update: We’re seeing progress!

Sleeping BabyFirst of all, I really don’t like the words “sleep training.” He’s my baby, not my dog. Is there another word/term for it? If you haven’t read any of my previous posts, our son slept in our bed with us until he was past the high-risk age for SIDS. I’d read all the info saying it could be dangerous to sleep in the same bed with your child, and we had a little bassinet…but the first two months of his life, that kid did NOT sleep, unless he was sleeping on my or Daddy’s chest. When he was about 4 months old, I went through several weeks of torture (more so for me, than him, I think) to get him to fall asleep in his crib. It was finally starting to go better; then came the holidays. For about a month and a half, we had guests staying with us, on and off, sleeping in my son’s room. So we moved him back in with us.

Anyway, I started off almost two weeks ago now, by co-sleeping with my son in his room (in the spare bed). After 3 nights of that, I started moving him in the middle of the night into his crib (I stayed sleeping in the room). This past Monday, I started putting him in crib to start with, and I slept away from him with Hubby in our bedroom.

The first night he cried for about 40 minutes. I felt terrible, but just kept going in and checking on him, picking him up, patting his back, whispering to him…basically comforting him in whatever way I could other than giving in and taking him back to bed with me (which is what he wanted).

The second night he cried less. The third night he cried for maybe 15 minutes. Last night he didn’t cry at all.


Now, I have enough experience with babies to know that he might just turn around and say, “Psyche!” tonight or tomorrow night or a month from now and start crying again. But last night was wonderful. I can hope that tonight will go just as well, can’t I?

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  1. My 17 month old didn’t start sleeping through the night on her own until about 2 1/2 months ago. It’s a great feeling when they finally do it, but I stink at letting her cry. I just can’t do it!

    1. 🙁 Yeah, the first night was really hard for me. That’s why I kept going in so much to comfort him! Then I sent Hubby in to check on Baby J at one point, and apparently he never did. Honestly, if he hadn’t started crying less each subsequent night, I might have given in and put him back in our bed with us! But he’s been sleeping 4-5 hours straight the last few nights as opposed to 3 hours, so I know I’m making the right call. We’re all going to sleep better!

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